How Men and Women Flirt
Doesn’t the sight of Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, Antonio Banderas give you goose bumps? Your heart skips a beat and you wonder what is it about these Hollywood hunks, apart from their perfect face and body that makes heads turn. Well, it is the charm and the charisma that oozes from every pore of their body, that look in their eye or that killer smile which floors millions of women. You may not actually be a Tom cruise or a Meg Ryan, but you could be as devastating and have the same fan following. Only if you perfect the art of flirting.
What exactly is flirting? Flirting is expressing your feeling of attraction via your words and deeds in such a way that the other person is irresistibly drawn to you. Flirting is not practical or direct but cleverly and subtly done through the use of body language, intonations and suggestions. Do you know that all of us flirt but some people are better than others? Here is how men and women flirt. Try incorporating some of these basic moves into your behavior and see your fan following grow:
Five things men do when they flirt:
* Arch his back and puff his chest, usually by leaning back in a chair and putting his arms behind his head. This will be accompanied by a sweet smile.
* Stretch the chest muscles, which is interpreted as a sign of their ability to protect.
* Swaying the pelvis just like Elvis, chances are that he has the hots for you.
* Tugging his tie is a common giveaway. It indicates nervousness.
* Clasping the back of his neck. Other gestures may include pointing his chin up in the air or placing palms on a table or their knees. While the former means showing off his rugged features, the latter is a reassurance of harmlessness.
Five things women do when they flirt:
* Smile: When a woman smiles at her admirer it signals availability and interest.
* Arching eyebrows so as to gaze wide-eyed, or quickly lowering their lids, tucking their chin and averting the gaze.
* Giggle: Normally done by placing the hand over or near the mouth, a sign of youth and submissiveness. This is often accompanied by that slight shrug of the shoulders sometimes interpreted as a sign of helplessness.
* Tossing their mane is something that most men just cannot resist. Or walking with a gentle sway of the hips calling attention to the pelvis and advertising curves.
* Rolling the tongue over the lips signals sexual maturity and interest.
Some people are born flirts, while others learn along the way. If you master these techniques you too could become an ace charmer. All you need is a bit of creativity, originality and subtle body language and you will be a fabulous flirt all your life.
